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Friday, December 19, 2014

Painted Pillow Swag on a Budget

If my life was measured in pillows, I'd be winning.  It's seriously nutty how many throw pillows I have.  I would also hate to admit how much I paid for those said pillows.  The issue?  I am a sucker for change.  It's okay though, guys!  I finally found the solution.


... Ikea pillow covers.  Bet you saw that one coming.  I am slowly finding "our" style in our home.  Sometimes it is easy to forget that there is a boy living under the same roof, so I am trying to be consciences of that too. Needless to say, there has been a lot of trial and error... and turmoil?  Hm.  Sounds about right. I am quickly drawing the conclusion that I don't have an exact style-- I just like what I like.

For starters I picked up a couple Gurli cushion covers from Ikea ($4.00 a pop), and their down inner cushion inserts ($6.99 each).  I've really been drawn to geometric shapes, not to mention the Swiss cross, therefore, that pattern was a given.


I picked up some fabric paint made by Tulip @ JoAnn fabrics.  Check out their Soft line.  It is ideal for these type of projects.  Next, I grabbed a mail flyer and cut my pattern into it.  Also known as the poor man stencil, make sure your paper is pretty thick.  We aren't looking for soggy here.



Before you begin, it is never a bad idea to iron your pillow cover.  You'll at least want to flatten the deep wrinkles.  For my pattern, I eyeballed it.  I love the idea of something being slightly imperfect.  Use your paintbrush or foam brush (both will work) and blot the area.


Move your stencil to another section and start again.  Keep going until you think you got it just right. Then, order a Topper's pizza and eat it.


Here is another quick pattern I did for reference.  I just used some tape and filled in the center with gold paint.  The options are seriously endless.  From simple to complex, you can do it all.


After a little drying time, you end up with some pretty cool ass pillows.


Dip Dying a Duvet Cover

Good morning boys and girls.  Today I am going to teach you how to dye a duvet cover.  Ready?  Okay, let's go!

Materials you may want to favor:
  • Latex/latex free/rubber gloves
  • A white duvet of your choosing ($29.99 @ Target)
  • Large glass bowl or plastic tote
  • Rit Dye (feel free to mix colors)
  • Salt (add one cup of salt for cotton based products)
  • Water
  • 1 tablespoon liquid laundry detergent (I used Woolite)
  • 30-40 minutes of your time
When I began this process, I didn't necessarily know what kind of look I was going for.  I found a couple images online of similar duvets for HUNDREDS OF DOLLARS. No!  I won't do it.


First off, follow the instructions on your Rit package or bottle.  I picked navy blue because, well, I liked it.


For larger projects you may want to use a large plastic tote of your choosing.  This is something that I probably should have done, but didn't feel like venturing outside in the garage to look for one.  Why? Because it is winter time in Minnesota.


I mixed my solution in my sink.  If you get a little (or a lot) of dye in/on your sink, don't cry.  Use a Magic Eraser. That shit works on everything.  Oh, and glove up.


To make sure the dye got where I wanted it to, I used a wooden spoon that I don't plan on using again.  You may want to consider picking out your own tool where you won't get devastated if ruined.


Once the duvet soaks up the dye-- I alternated times between sections to give the colors varying depth-- give it a good rinse, and hang dry what you can.  I may have made the mistake of putting the duvet through the washing machine, followed by the dryer.  I think the outcome was pretty cool, kind of this soft cloud effect.  I guess it goes to show you that there is no wrong way of doing it.  However, if you are seeking bright, vibrant hues, skip the washing machine.


For one of the first dying projects I've done, I like it... but I don't love it.  It may just be a bit too muted for me.  The nice thing about doing these kind of projects is, if it isn't perfect the first time, you can always try again.  Hello weekend plans.


Friday, December 12, 2014

This Can't Be Our House. It Just Can't Be.

...because people are always curious about before and after images, (I am so guilty of this) I thought it would be fun to show you what our house looked like the day we bought it.  The only issue is, we couldn't afford a camera back then, and cellphone pictures?  Well, let's just say my Verizon Chocolate (first generation), wasn't capable of great quality photos... er.. maybe it was me that wasn't capable and didn't know how to take pictures?  Either way.  Didn't happen.

So, then I Googled our address...

Living Room
Basement View #1
Dining
Basement View # 2
"Master" Bedroom (REDRUM)
Downstairs Bathroom
Kitchen
Upstairs Guest Room
Deck
:-/

Although major improvements are still making headway in our house... looking at these photos gives me a good idea as to why I was hell bent on changing it up in there.  So... boring.  So typical.  So ugly.

It is easy for me to get all hot and bothered about projects getting put on the back burner-- when they need to be done LIKE RIGHT NOW.  But I think it is safe to say that, comparing the before's, after's and the in progress photos, our home looks nothing like this anymore.  Nothing.  Thank God.

Conclusion:  I fricken love Google.  High five.

... and just for comparison sake, let's take a look at some of these "transition" photos.

2006... Oh the horror 
Early 2014
Now
2006...

Now
2006...
2012
Now(ish)
2006
Early 2014
2006
Now
I know I am WAY BEHIND on getting updated photos of our remodel(s)... but you know how it goes. Crossing my fingers that it might actually happen kinda soon.  Now, what are you waiting for? If it's broke... go fix it.

Tuesday, November 11, 2014

How to Paint Kitchen Cabinets

Project ideas have been humming in our household lately.  There has been a lot of talk about things that we need to take care of, like yesterday, but have been dragging our feet.  Life, as we, you all of us know it, is crazy.  Every weekend, which was once designated for projects, has been jam packed with lots of other little goodies, and sadly, there is no sign of slowing down with the holidays fast approaching.  Ugh.  I mean yay.

At 2:00 on Sunday I made the decision to finally get around to "re-finishing" our cabinets.  My Pinterest board will be so excited.

Our cabinets, although tolerable, were looking a little drab with the oak stain and sheen coming off of them.  Plus, let's face it, I dislike oak colored stain very much.

The grain and texture of our cabinets wasn't worth my time in stripping, sanding for a million hours, and re-staining.  What they did have going for them was a timeless design.  A win for the split house.

From start to finish this process took me about 15 or so hours of actual work, and about 48 hours of waiting.  If you want it done right the first time, don't half-ass it.

First thing I did was remove all cabinet doors.  A lot of people may have removed the cabinet in it's entirety, but not me.  Those things were staying.  We already had to take them down twice- one to level them-- because the person putting them up before was on crack.  The second, to lower the cabinets to a "more ideal" height after we found it was problematic for the old hubster.  I wish I was a little bit taller, I wish I was a baller... am I right?

After all cabinet doors were removed, I took off the hardware and placed them in plastic bags- indicating which knob went where.  The hinges had to go too.

Next, I sanded the doors and cabinets with 240 medium grit sandpaper.  The sawdust debris is going to fly, so make sure to cover up and/or remove anything from the kitchen that you don't want to get dusty.  Make sure to give your cabinets a good wipe down.  ***If you have holey cabinets, make sure to patch any holes you aren't interested in having any longer with a wood putty, THEN sand.

The first step is priming your cabinets.  When we first started these mini home improvement projects, there were a few cardinal rules that we were afraid to go against.  One is that you should never mix latex paint with oil based primer.  Where I heard this, I'm not sure, but it's all lies!  LIES!

Here is what you should know:  Latex primer is for the walls.  Oil based primer is great for wood, plaster, iron, and steel.  You run the risk of your project chipping if you use latex based primer.  From here on out, I will only be using oil based primer for my wood painting needs.

Food for thought:  When it comes to using oil based anything, clean up is always a bitch.  No matter how hard you try, water will not do.  Repeat after me... You NEED mineral spirits.

This is da shit right der, mang.

Moving on, there were a few tools I would highly recommend for any cabinet/trim work/furniture painting.


In no particular order, these foam rollers were a dream come true for this project.  Everything went on real smooth-like.  Plus I only needed one roller for the whole project.  Yesssss.  You can purchase these cheap-o rollers for $2.50 from Home Depot.  **Bonus, it comes with a small painting tray!
The Wooster Shortcut is probably the best paintbrush ever.  It is small and flexible.  I used this brush to get into any tricky grooves, and smoothed it out with the roller while the paint was still wet. 


Here is a couple snap shots of my priming job.  Keep in mind that globs of primer will show through- so make sure you brush it on evenly.  If there are darker areas, it's otay.  Just as long as you applied an even coat-- with the grain of the wood mind you-- it will be allllll good.  

At this point my kitchen seemed huge with the amount of painting I had to endure, even though in reality it's pretty damn small.  The cabinet doors had to be primed on one side, dry, then continued on the other side.  Once the primer was dry, it was time to add my paint color.  I used a new line of Behr products from Home Depot called Marquee.  It comes in two fabulous sheen's.  I just so happened to use the semi-gloss (an ideal candidate for kitchen cabinets because of its cleaning ability).  Another awesome perk is that this paint also has a built in primer, meaning extra durability for you!  Very nice.



Park Avenue by Behr
I also picked this specific color because I thought it would still disguise any dirt/dog hair, as opposed to white cabinets that show any type of fingerprint or surface stain.  Plus at this moment in time, our counters and floors are white, therefore, I wanted the space to still look larger and a bit cleaner, while still breaking up the whiteness.  The color turned out to be a lot lighter than I expected.  I'm not complaining... much.  It is still really pretty and elegant, but let's face it, G-dogs hair isn't disguised at all, which means more cleaning for mom.


When it came to applying the actual color, like I mentioned above, paint with the grain of the wood.  Also, anytime you use a brush, make sure you go over it with a foam roller to smooth out the surface while the paint is still wet.  



Once the paint is applied, it was time to put the hardware back on, and attach the NEW stainless steel hinges.  If you purchased new hinges, like us, the holes may not line up with your old hinges.  Ours certainly didn't, but make lemonade out of lemons, right?  Make sure you pre-drill your holes before screwing in your hinges.  For added help- try and use a comfortable screwdriver first to get the screws started.  This will prevent the screws from getting stripped via a drill.  Once the screws are secure, you can tighten them using your drill.


Out with the old.  Goodbye.


In with the new!


The best part about this whole project is that the total cost was just under what you would pay for one kitchen cabinet- roughly $110.00 bucks.  Follow these steps, and you are guaranteed the perfect cabinet finish.  Happy painting everyone!

Sunday, October 19, 2014

An Ode to Logan


Today I am taking a break from DIYing, and fall leave picture taking, internet shopping, and wishing for more time in a day to squeeze things in.  Today I am reflecting on a life I didn't know much about, but wish I'd had.  Today I lost a cousin to bullying and it sucks.

An Ode to Logan Dobkins, 15.

Bullying has got to stop.  But we already know this.

I know I may get some grief for this post- which I invite, if not encourage--because no one should look away like I did, like we tend to do-- but to be completely honest, bullying didn't effect me like some.  It wasn't bothersome to my immediate family until today, so why advocate for something that didn't hit home?  Trust me, I know bullying is wrong, I've always known this.  We've all been through it, and more than likely on both sides of the fence.  It is part of growing up, right?  You don't wear the right jeans, name brands, or own the latest phone version, you get teased.  People are fragile.  We have feelings.  We are capable of becoming broken at some point in our lives- the goal is to pick yourself up and move on.  However, we all have limits.  We all have breaking points.  Today was my cousin Logan's, and today was a rude awakening that I don't pay enough attention to this shitty pandemic.

We all have the tendency to bully.  Even as adults we do it ourselves.  We are classically trained to be hypocrites.  We tell the children of the world that it is not okay.  Say no to bullying.  Stand up for yourself and others, yet we turn around and bad mouth a co-worker, a shopper in a supermarket, or even a Barista who messed up on our order.  Although we may not say it to their face, we tend to look for an ear to vent our meaningless frustrations to, because as people it makes us feel better.  Everyone, kids and adults, myself and my husband, need to learn a lesson or two in manners and respect, and my hope is that blogging this will do just that.  Even if it only reached a couple of people, I hope it allows you a moment or two of reflection on what you could do differently next time you're about to say or do something you may regret to another human being.

Don't get me wrong.  I'm not trying to demonstrate that we are all horrible, mean people.  I am demonstrating that we are human and shit happens.

Bullying is uncomfortable to talk about.  It is also easy to deny.  Your kid would never do that and never say that.  We seem to only bring up this disgusting issue when it does become a problem.  Even then it may involve a quick discussion, followed by a do you understand?  Before you send your child back on their merry way.  The issue needs to be demonstrated why it's wrong and every teachable moment needs to be made an example of.  However, ignorance is bliss, right?

The bullying has gotten more aggressive.  The words much worse, and because of it, uninformed kids are finding less ways to cope and deal, which is resulting in something more than permanent- death.

Your children need to be told at some point they will be bullied and it is going to suck really bad.  You are a special person and there is only one of you on this earth.  Every bit of you in unique and you need to love and embrace yourself.  You are worth it.  If you feel like you want to bully someone, first think about how you would feel if you were the one getting teased.  Making someone break isn't worth it to you, to them, or to anyone and it doesn't need to continue.  More importantly, we need to teach our children to stand up for those who are receiving verbal or physical misery.  Sometimes it takes a village to make a change.  In this case, the more we demonstrate and teach our children it is absurd and wrong to bully others and imperative to stand up to those that are, the quicker this shit will go away forever.

My cousin was 15.  He lived in Wyoming.  He was an excellent hunter with a goofy personality.  The dogs and chickens at my grandparents ranch loved him just as much as he loved exploring outside.  He was always quiet when I knew him, but very observant.  He had the unconditional love of his mother who was very proud of him, an older brother and younger sister- who loved him dearly and talked much about him.  Logan had a beautiful smile that could light up a room.  I have no idea why anyone in their right mind would want to bully him to the extent that he was- to make him feel no self worth- to the point where he needed to end his life.  To those people I encourage you to reflect on what you did, and create something positive out of it in memory of a life you stole.  And when you have children, you use your story to set an example for your kids in order to prevent additional heartbreak to the families involved.  For those that played any role in his misfortune I am sad for you.

Logan's life deserved so much more than what he got.  That goes for every individual, friend, and family member affected by bullying.  It never needed to happen in the first place and I am so sorry for that.  I want to dedicate this little corner of the internet to them.  If you too have some words to share for a loved one that fell victim to this vile trend, I encourage you to use the comment space below to advocate for them.

If you are a victim of bullying and you need someone to talk to, I'm here for you.  So many people are.

This is my ode to Logan and today and going forward, I will be making a change.  Stop bullying.  Please.  A life of someone close to you may depend on it.

Resources:

http://www.sweetwaternow.com/sublette-county-sheriffs-office-updates-photograph-15-year-old-logan-dobkins-search-continues-missing-teen/

http://ihavevanished.com/2014/10/19/wy-logan-dobkins-missing-pinedale-boy-found-dead/

Stopbullying.gov